To err is human, they say. But who decides on the magnitude of error which can be neglected or forgiven. It is embedded in our very nature to make mistakes, and I for one, am no exception. I am no stranger to this territory, have been carving out one after another for a long time. Some are pure acts of stupidity, some are due to unjust demands of time, and some due to a short temperament. But I do make a conscious effort to learn from my mistakes. So as not to commit them again and imbibe a sense of responsibility and maturity in myself. But as much as I would like to avoid them, they continue to crop up in my life. Somewhat similar to a blooming rose, basking in its beauty but with a bunch of thorns which constitute its existence.
A mistake, no matter small or big, can change the very foundation of our relationships. What one perceives as a silly one-off act of stupidity can mean a big deal for others. And the opposite also holds true. It all depends on the types of people involved. Like minds often shoot things off the roof. Opposite minds don’t take such things as a damper. But who are we to decide what is allowed as permissible and what is not. A mistake is a mistake. And at most times, they just happen in the heat of the moment. Unless one is mentally unstable and needs a trip to a psychiatrist!
To err is human, to forgive divine. But why is it that most of us are devoid of this divinity. Why do we get so engrossed in our own world, where we make our own rules, and treat others like dirt. Why do we take our own sweet time to realize our mistakes. Why do we feel ashamed to accept our mistakes and ask for forgiveness. Why is it that we overlook our own shortcomings and don’t respond to our inner self which holds answers to all questions generated by our own minds.
It is this inherent nature of ours that needs to change. Mistakes happen, but to accept them and acknowledge our faults is what can make us better people. Life is short and doesn’t give opportunities all the time. The sooner we repent, the better. And to forgive is an even better act of kindness. I might continue to commit mistakes but I have to learn to accept, forget and forgive. This is the ultimate secret to having a sound and healthy relationship.
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